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LBD – Simple Styling

Hi there my selfish readers, hope you all had an amazing weekend. My weekend consisted of wine, girl talk, and work. The look above I put together with the idea of a simple date night on the mind. The floral patterns on the blazer pieced the look together without overshadowing the lace patternContinue reading “LBD – Simple Styling”

Sometimes, It’s the Outer Beauty That Counts

Hi everyone, welcome back to the blog. This week I am talking about investing in your appearance. As women, we often find ourselves in the midst of so many products with little to no glue on how to use them to perfection. I am here to tell you there is no need to spend hours whenContinue reading “Sometimes, It’s the Outer Beauty That Counts”

Casual Weekend Look-Lazy Girl Edition

It’s the weekend, and were talking about casual fashion looks today on the blog. This current look was inspired by Californian men style. I stepped out of my comfort zone and accessorized more than usual without losing the concept. Think boyfriend clothes meets date night. Hope you all enjoy this look as much as IContinue reading “Casual Weekend Look-Lazy Girl Edition”

How To Say No….Without Saying No

Have you ever wanted to just look at someone and ask them how they got so self entailed for so long? I have always believed that people will go as far as you let them. If you don’t believe me look around study some people in your life and how they move and act toward you.Continue reading “How To Say No….Without Saying No”

Summer Look- Jeans and Turtle Neck

Details Below about where I purchased this outfit. I can’t express how much I love these Jeans. This is the second time I paired these jeans for an outfit look on this blog. This Turtle Neck top is legit EVERYTHING, I live in a city where I can wear this in the summer without sweatingContinue reading “Summer Look- Jeans and Turtle Neck”

How to Survive Being 25

How does being 25 feels you ask? well I’ll tell you. Picture being hit by a truck and when you finally healed…miraculously, that same truck finds you to attempt to finished the job. LOL totally joking, its actually not that bad. Legit though if you’re a single hard working girl, like most are, 25 canContinue reading “How to Survive Being 25”

Simple Date Night Look- Weekend Edition

This morning I woke up feeling fresh, relaxed and well rested. I will be honest, I was going to wait until my vacation ended to post something new on the blog. But today I had such a positive energy that couldn’t be put to waste. So without any holding back I poured myself a cupContinue reading “Simple Date Night Look- Weekend Edition”

Weekend Looks For The Lazy Girl

As many of you all know by now following my blog I don’t wear much jewelry. I mean I put the occasional rings here and there to give a little pop to my outfits, but aside from that I tend to be very minimalistic— (is that even a word) when I accessorize. I legit struggleContinue reading “Weekend Looks For The Lazy Girl”

Five Things Every 20-Something Year Old Female Should Do

This year hasn’t even ended and I feel as if I have gone through such a tremendous transformation. Most of those changes are mainly mentally and psychologically, you know… (the personal stuff). There were a lot’s pep talks and late night thinking after my birthday regarding what I need to plan for the next few years.Continue reading “Five Things Every 20-Something Year Old Female Should Do”

Reasons Why Buying Yourself Gifts Works

This whole year I decided I would buy myself a gift each month. These gifts can come in the forms of food ( cause food is life), travelling, shoes, household items, clothes, and of course books. The benefit of buying your own gifts is that you always get what you want. Don’t get me wrong,Continue reading “Reasons Why Buying Yourself Gifts Works”