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Simple and Affordable Weekend Look

I put this outfit together for all the summer loving on the go weekenders. As many of us know weekends can sometime be just as hectic as the weekdays. With all the personal errands and functions we attend I find that comfort and flexibility is much needed when the sun is out. This wholeContinue reading “Simple and Affordable Weekend Look”

5 Activites You Should Try Doing Alone

Recently I went to dinner alone and trust me, this was not something planned. This casual date night came after a long weekend of work and cleaning. I was craving Beef Carpaccio and searched high and low for someone to come with me. My one friend, who is usually down for the cause, left toContinue reading “5 Activites You Should Try Doing Alone”

7 Benefits of Being Selfish

I know what most of you are all thinking, whaaaaaat?,there is benefits to being selfish? No way!!!!!!, what can you possibly get out of thinking about yourself without hurting those around you. My philosophy in life has always been, “you are no good to anyone if you are no good to yourself”. As young adults IContinue reading “7 Benefits of Being Selfish”

Men’s Button Down Meets Girls’ Night

For this series I decided to showcase a little bit of myself in regards to my fashion sense. Truth be told this was a last minute outfit decision. One of my girl friends wanted to have a girls’ night out on Monday, which a I was totally down for because it was a place weContinue reading “Men’s Button Down Meets Girls’ Night”

Wine & Cheese

I want to apologize for posting this a bit late for the weekend, but you know sometime this thing called life gets in the way of LITERALLY EVERYTHING. With that being said, I did managed to complete my cheese board and eat it of course with a friend this weekend. What I enjoy most aboutContinue reading “Wine & Cheese”

Nikon vs. The Rookie Photographer

Hope you enjoy my first ever amateur greatness photos. Does that even make sense? Who cares pictures!!! My fav coffee spot thus far!!! Clearly I have a thing for indoor plants. 🙂

Nikon vs The Rookie Photographer—( New Series Coming Soon)

But First… My home away from home… “Planted” right in.

Your 20’s

“If I see something I like and someone else has it, that means it’s attainable” At the age of sixteen I remember telling myself, I can’t wait until I turn 21. At that time 21 was age to be, I had all these dreams and goals I thought would be in the palm of myContinue reading “Your 20’s”

Welcome to The Selfish Column – A Blog That Allows You To Be Selfish Without Apologizing; Celebrate You

Selfish Column Post 1 Selfish (of person, action, or motive) lacking consideration for others; concerned chiefly with one’s own personal profit or pleasure. With a definition like this, no wonder why many of us are hesitant to show self-love. Self-love in many society come with a negative connotation. It’s almost as if all that youContinue reading “Welcome to The Selfish Column – A Blog That Allows You To Be Selfish Without Apologizing; Celebrate You”