Surviving Adulting – Page 2 – The Selfish Column

5 Random Life Hacks For The Lazy Girl

1. Open a separate email account for all your shopping needs. Let’s be honest everyone wants a good deal while shopping, but sometimes that deal comes in an email form. It can be difficult to filter through your personal emails and all those daily emails from your fav brands. I’m not the one toContinue reading “5 Random Life Hacks For The Lazy Girl”

How To Say No….Without Saying No

Have you ever wanted to just look at someone and ask them how they got so self entailed for so long? I have always believed that people will go as far as you let them. If you don’t believe me look around study some people in your life and how they move and act toward you.Continue reading “How To Say No….Without Saying No”

Five Things Every 20-Something Year Old Female Should Do

This year hasn’t even ended and I feel as if I have gone through such a tremendous transformation. Most of those changes are mainly mentally and psychologically, you know… (the personal stuff). There were a lot’s pep talks and late night thinking after my birthday regarding what I need to plan for the next few years.Continue reading “Five Things Every 20-Something Year Old Female Should Do”

Reasons Why Buying Yourself Gifts Works

This whole year I decided I would buy myself a gift each month. These gifts can come in the forms of food ( cause food is life), travelling, shoes, household items, clothes, and of course books. The benefit of buying your own gifts is that you always get what you want. Don’t get me wrong,Continue reading “Reasons Why Buying Yourself Gifts Works”

5 Activites You Should Try Doing Alone

Recently I went to dinner alone and trust me, this was not something planned. This casual date night came after a long weekend of work and cleaning. I was craving Beef Carpaccio and searched high and low for someone to come with me. My one friend, who is usually down for the cause, left toContinue reading “5 Activites You Should Try Doing Alone”

7 Benefits of Being Selfish

I know what most of you are all thinking, whaaaaaat?,there is benefits to being selfish? No way!!!!!!, what can you possibly get out of thinking about yourself without hurting those around you. My philosophy in life has always been, “you are no good to anyone if you are no good to yourself”. As young adults IContinue reading “7 Benefits of Being Selfish”

Wine & Cheese

I want to apologize for posting this a bit late for the weekend, but you know sometime this thing called life gets in the way of LITERALLY EVERYTHING. With that being said, I did managed to complete my cheese board and eat it of course with a friend this weekend. What I enjoy most aboutContinue reading “Wine & Cheese”

Your 20’s

“If I see something I like and someone else has it, that means it’s attainable” At the age of sixteen I remember telling myself, I can’t wait until I turn 21. At that time 21 was age to be, I had all these dreams and goals I thought would be in the palm of myContinue reading “Your 20’s”